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Relationship Expert Shatters Old Myth by Announcing:
It takes ONE to tango!
HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
WITHOUT YOUR PARTNER!
How many times have you talked and talked about a problem with your partner, and afterward, you feel worse? How many years have you been trying to "solve" the same old relationship problem?
Never again! Repeat Oprah guest, Hollywood movie consultant, and relationship expert Susan Page reveals Eight Loving Actions you can do by yourself that are far more effective and much easier to pull off than complicated "communication" with your partner.
Susan Page can tell your readers or listeners:
- why it is a MYTH that communication is the most important relationship skill and why communication fails many couples
- how unilateral LOVING ACTIONS create rapid positive change in even very troubled relationships
- why couples should STOP working on solving their problems
- why fairness and equality are NOT important in relationships
- the surprise MOST IMPORTANT SKILL couples should cultivate
- how to solve even the most difficult relationship problem BY YOURSELF.
- how to treat relationship as a spiritual practice (not religious, but spiritual in a broader sense)
Couples across the country have reported almost magical results from using Susan Page’s strategies.
- "We date our lives now as 'Before Susan' and 'After Susan.' We are veteran self-help students, but the impact of Susan's work was staggering."
- "Susan Page is ushering in a whole new era in relationship work. She is a pioneer."
- "I never believed we'd be so happy again! Susan's method is truly different. It is a total shift of consciousness."
Unitarian minister Fred Small says, "Susan Page is like the Buddha channeled by Ann Landers!" Self-help guru Anthony Robbins says, "Far from being hard to do, Susan Page's ideas are hard not to do, once you have been introduced to them."
Susan Page's Eight Loving Actions include such strategies as "acting as if," "practicing restraint," "acting on your own," and "practicing compassion." They are easy to understand and to do and may even have a secret quality about them, as though the Loving Partner is a kind of elf or angel giving a surprise little gift.
The Loving Actions are based on "an inner shift to good will," and a recognition that people respond far more positively to support than to criticism. Page anticipates readers who complain that the Eight Loving Actions aren't "fair" by showing that "fair" is far less important than "effective." "Besides," she points out, "This method is fair because it gives you enormous power, not power over your mate, but inner power and personal strength. At last, you can stop waiting around for your partner to change! You can actually get your needs met in your relationship through your own actions."
Page demonstrates convincingly that focusing on problems is more likely to magnify than to solve them. The "Spiritual Partner" is encouraged to develop a new level of consciousness so that problems, instead of being solved, will fade and lose their urgency. Spiritual Partners don’t "solve" problems so much as they outgrow them.
Susan Page's new book, entitled Why Talking is not Enough: 8 Loving Actions That Will Transform Your Marriage, (Jossey-Bass; a Wiley Imprint) with a May 1 publication date, follows upon her four other relationship books including her international bestseller, If I'm So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single?